"Many of us today are engaging in a tremendous amount of spiritual work on ourselves. We're meditating, praying, attending workshops, seminars, and retreats.
And this is good news. Because if the world is going to evolve,it's going to take a lot of conscious people to lead the way.
Yet the vast majority of us who are engaging in spiritual practice are making the same mistake. We tend to put far too much emphasis on the need to work out our personal psychological issues as part of our spiritual path.
The way this plays out practically is as follows: let's say that you take up a spiritual practice in earnest, and you notice in the course of that practice that you're deeply defended against lifeand intimacy. You won't let other people see you. You always wear a social mask which hides a deep-rooted insecurity.
Well, upon discovering this, as psychologically informed people, our tendency is going to be to withdraw inward, to go back to our past, to start plumbing the depths of our psyche to try to find and uproot the causes of this fear and insecurity, and this tendency tohide ourselves from life.
The trouble is that although this "archaeological dig" into the depths of your psyche might lead to greater self-understanding, it won't necessarily make it any easier for you to be vulnerable, authentic and present. Indeed, it might even take you further awayfrom intimacy by making you more self-absorbed than before.
It's important to recognize that this tendency toward self-preoccupation isn't our fault. This habit grew out of our over-psychologized culture which basically told us that we were alldamaged by our childhood and that we have "inner wounds" that need to be healed in order to become happy and fulfilled as adults.
And, as the world's great wisdom traditions have been imported to the West, this pathology-focused worldview has gradually become superimposed onto the spiritual path.But when we let go of this compulsion to work out our problems and instead begin to directly engage in a path of authentic evolutionary spiritual transformation, we soon begin to discoverthat we have access to a part of our self that is already free fromour ego's limitations and issues.This is what I call "the awakening of the Evolutionary Self." It's the discovery of a part of our self that was never wounded or traumatized, and that doesn't need to be healed, because it isalready whole and complete.This part of the self has access to boundless energy, creativity, and positivity, and is
completely ready to participate in life fully, boldly, passionately, holding nothing back.When we step into this Evolutionary Self, we feel instantly connected to the heart of Life and energized by the impulse of evolution itself.Miraculously, what we find in doing this work is that when people awaken to and begin to act from this deeper, truer part of the self, then all of the psychological issues, blocks, wounds,complexes, and neuroses that previously seemed so intractable suddenly seem to dissolve.Now, the truth is that they haven't dissolved. They can still be reactivated if we step back into the narrow perspective of the ego. But in light of this newfound, higher potential, and the profound sense of purpose and meaning that comes with it, we discover a powerful motivation to no longer fall back into our "issues."
Indeed, as our awareness of this Evolutionary Self grows, our old habits and issues become less and less interesting to us, and in that, they gradually lose their power over our psyche.And that makes all the difference in the world. In this alignment with the Evolutionary Self, we begin to discover the real meaning of freedom from the ego. And we learn that this freedom is not something we have to wait for. It can happen now if we're willing to give our heart and soul to it. If you want to get a taste of the simplicity I'm describing, try this experiment. For one full day, go on a "fast" from any form of self-concern.
Throughout the day, any time you notice yourself mulling over one of your "issues" or trying to overcome an emotional or psychological difficulty within yourself, simply put it down. Letit go. Turn your attention to something else. Indeed, if you want to really get a taste of something different, try turning your attention away from your inner turmoil and placingit on the part of you that is already aligned with the big YES at the heart of the cosmos. And notice how your perspective on your problems changes.
This may initially seem difficult to do, but with a little practice, you might find that you begin to have access to a depth of presence and awakened clarity that you never could haveimagined. Try it for just one day. You might be surprised at what you discover.
And if you'd like to get a firsthand experience of this Evolutionary Self, and learn some additional tools to help you awaken to it, I wanted to let you know that this Saturday, April21st, I'll be hosting a special interactive LIVECAST event called:"Awakening the Evolutionary Self."
During this free 2-hour "virtual workshop," I'll be leading a series of evolutionary exercises and guided meditations to help you activate and align with this Evolutionary Self in your ownexperience. I will also be taking live questions and doing some live one-on-one work with a few volunteers, plus a few of my course graduates will be speaking about their experiences and sharing with us their learnings from the work."